"Good Friends"

After some incidents which took place between so-called "good friends"...

I began to wonder why do people say things just to agonize others?
Do they not think before they blab or do they not consider before they respond?
Were they too overwhelmed by their own fury to judge?
Or was it just to make themselves feel better?

Will a person be so jealous of her "good friend" to the degree of challenging her in terms of socialization?
Can I term that as being callow?
Or shall I label it as the pot calling the kettle black?

Will a person be so beaten by her own woes and fail to realize that her "good friend" was there to lend her shoulder? A "good friend" who never requires gratitude.
Is it equitable treatment to address her with crude remarks even when her efforts wasn't appreciated?
Or just because she embarked on an undesirable relationship?

Are "good friends" really able to grasp each other inside-out?
Will this level of understanding be sufficient to establish a certainty that this "good friend" will never steal?

Was it fate that brought two people together?
Or were these two people brought together by the help of another?
Is it a sin to fall in love with a man who shattered your friend's heart?
Should the broken-hearted claim credit for their coupling?
Or can anyone be certain that these two would never have made it on their own?

Should I believe in karma?
Will the effects of a person's actions determine his destiny in his next incarnation?
In that case, will the pot get it's karma as well as the kettle?

If endurance is a vice, then is it better if that "friend" was left to die at the lousiest moment of her life?
Or is it a virtue to confess that the friendship was suffocating at that point of time?
Wouldn't it be much more devastating?

Do you live for yourself or do you live in the shadow of another?
Are you able to let go?
Will this hatred burn in your heart forever?
Do you not feel weary?
Will you ever be "friend" again?